True Love? :p

I was asked to write about true love of a person, by a person - who in his deep sense is the best to spend time. (This is what happens when you are free and doesn’t have anything worth to do).

Well, to begin with – there is nothing called as true love, is it?

As far as the world could stretch, love is as synonymous with trueness. Let’s say a practical scenario. Love has a synonym which reads out “A deep or abiding liking for something”. If you have such an abiding towards something, you will be true to it – let alone desiring it.

Next, there is something peculiar in the current generation/century for which love has become synonymous with ‘gender’ peculiarly Appearance. C’mon there is a better word to be a synonym for that – LUST not love. No one would crave for a better half to be a person who is not an ‘EYE CANDY’. But, truly love does not need those appearances to bond with. It needs a warmth in heart and kind soul to last.

The Current Scenario – A Girl/Guy often boasts about a true love for the opposite gender (though in certain rarity cases it may be the person of the same gender: p). The most possible outcome is that their will to leave their kith and kin (parents included) to live out their so called love with the so-called persons i.e. TRUE LOVER(S). Is this THE so-called True Love?

But in the above scenario, even the subjective love is for the opposite gender (: P). Almost in every case, it depends upon the character, behaviour or to be precise it depends upon their need of “something in Return” from them. This is the basic opposite to Love.

A love should be endless, unconditional, infinitesimal and without expectations. It must/should be endless, intertwined with the soul – not to be parted with and also something which does not hurt (psychologically) others intentionally. A love soothes and not hurts.

A person who knows their Mother’s Love will know the exact synonym for True Love – unconditional yet caring, from Womb to Tomb.