True Love? :p

I was asked to write about true love of a person, by a person - who in his deep sense is the best to spend time. (This is what happens when you are free and doesn’t have anything worth to do).

Well, to begin with – there is nothing called as true love, is it?

As far as the world could stretch, love is as synonymous with trueness. Let’s say a practical scenario. Love has a synonym which reads out “A deep or abiding liking for something”. If you have such an abiding towards something, you will be true to it – let alone desiring it.

Next, there is something peculiar in the current generation/century for which love has become synonymous with ‘gender’ peculiarly Appearance. C’mon there is a better word to be a synonym for that – LUST not love. No one would crave for a better half to be a person who is not an ‘EYE CANDY’. But, truly love does not need those appearances to bond with. It needs a warmth in heart and kind soul to last.

The Current Scenario – A Girl/Guy often boasts about a true love for the opposite gender (though in certain rarity cases it may be the person of the same gender: p). The most possible outcome is that their will to leave their kith and kin (parents included) to live out their so called love with the so-called persons i.e. TRUE LOVER(S). Is this THE so-called True Love?

But in the above scenario, even the subjective love is for the opposite gender (: P). Almost in every case, it depends upon the character, behaviour or to be precise it depends upon their need of “something in Return” from them. This is the basic opposite to Love.

A love should be endless, unconditional, infinitesimal and without expectations. It must/should be endless, intertwined with the soul – not to be parted with and also something which does not hurt (psychologically) others intentionally. A love soothes and not hurts.

A person who knows their Mother’s Love will know the exact synonym for True Love – unconditional yet caring, from Womb to Tomb. 

Does Money Matters ?

Money!! This word, this thing, the ultimate power bestowed upon mankind with which one can do “almost” everything. Some may refuse to accept this but the reality is, money is the ultimate aim of each and every individual in this “century”. There are only three things in this entire universe that money couldn’t buy ‘Respect’, ‘Intelligence’ and ‘Love’. If I enumerate the four best things a human need, it would be the above three and then the money. Whereas in this century is that true? A man is respected based on his money even some are loved for one’s money.

Actually, everyone likes to earn more money isn’t it? With more money, you could live a luxurious life, who in this world doesn’t like the luxury. Yes, it may make you lazy but who cares?? You are RICH!! And rich people are loved and respected nowadays which is not wrong but which is also not correct and it has become the reality. I ain’t saying that rich peoples are not meant to be loved or respected but “one should not love or respect anyone only because of his richness”.

They say ‘Be happy with what you have’? Really? Can anyone be happy with what they have? We are psychologically built in such a way that when you acquire your target, fix another one and work towards it. Is this a bad thing? Absolutely not. The same principle is followed in money making. Some people say they are greedy but to be said from their point of view, “It is natural”.

Earning respect and love actually takes more time, more effort and more sacrifice than earning money. Ok! now I am going to tell you a story:

Let’s take a guy - a hard working guy, who has more money and is very good at something which is somehow not related to studies such as a sport. Now we all know that we could concentrate more when we are not under any stress. The guy who has money do not want to think about his family his future or any other kinds of stuff like that, all he wanted to do is concentrate on one thing which matters to him the most. So this guy as I said, a hard worker who also has a keen interest in the sport could eventually acquire his target.

Now another guy who is not that much rich but he is everything like the previous guy a hard worker and also has interest in the sport. Now the problem arises, will he be able to concentrate on pursuing his goal? He could, but not like the previous guy. He either should take a risk or change his career.

Can you understand what happened there? There is no fault in anyone but still, money plays its role. In a society like ours, it is hard to even compete without money.

Making money is never a bad thing, even making more money is not a bad thing but isn’t there some things which have value, more than THE money has in this world but whom to blame? Everything has become a business from education to sports and even politics. So all I am saying is “Money matters…… only to some extent”.

  

Dedicated to everyone out there in Wallstreet

and to everyone who is on their street!!